NO 1: All you want in the relationship is to be just left alone.

He or she nags you and annoys the hell out of you to the point where you feel like all you need is just some space to be alone.

NO 2: You feel like this is NOT you.

You’re being controlled, told what to and what not to do all the time to the point where you feel like you’re not even yourself in this relationship. For e.g. you get freaked out like you just killed somebody when you’re boyfriend or girlfriend sees you talking to another friend of your opposite gender. No good!


Don’t forget to read: 5 Hard to Ignore Examples of Verbal Abuse in Relationships

NO 3: You can feel yourself getting rebellious just to be YOU!

You’re getting sick and tired about all the crap that your boyfriend or girlfriend is putting you through and you’re beginning to speak up for yourself. You’re beginning to resist authority and establish equality in the relationship.

NO 4: You’re being physically hurt or threatened to be hurt.

If your partner is constantly hurting you physically or threatening to hurt you, you’ve got to get the hell out of this relationship ASAP!

NO 5: You’re tolerating sexual abuse because you love him or her.

Is your partner sexually abusing you and trying to make it out like there’s nothing wrong because “it’s all love”? If your partner is forcing you to do stuff that you don’t like, especially when you’re not feeling well, you know what that means!

NO 6: You’re not even allowed to spend time with your close friends or family members?

NO 7: You feel like you’re 24/7 followed by a CCTV camera?

If your boyfriend or girlfriend is 24/7 stalking all your activities, that is a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship. Where is the trust?

Which ones can you relate to? Speak your mind!