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5 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Suck!

NO 1: Troublesome timing

When you’re in a long distance relationship with someone from another country, the first annoying thing you’re likely to experience every day is the time difference issues. It’s worse if the time difference is more than 3 hours. Your sleep pattern can become so messed up that your friends and families might start calling you an owl.

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NO 2: Trust Issues…

The chances of having trust related arguments are higher for a long distance relationship. Unless your partner is a super honest person, you might never find out if he or she has ever cheated on you.

Your partner is also likely to get on your nerves and falsely accuse you of cheating for every stupid thing that happens in your life. For e.g., you came home late after going to a friend’s birthday party and slept because you were tired. Your partner might think you were hanging out with another guy and that’s why you didn’t have time for him.

NO 3: Hard to experience the love in real life.

Yes, you can see him or her on Skype, chat on Facebook or talk on the phone all day, but how long can you go without seeing each other in real life? If your partner lives abroad, you might only see this person once or twice a year, depending on when you both are free and how cheap the flight ticket is.

NO 4: Harder to calm down arguments.

Some arguments take forever to get sorted out through a Skype or phone conversation. You can’t surprise your partner with a cute teddy and a sorry card when he or she’s upset or make an attempt to see each other in person to talk things out.

NO 5: You miss out on the other aspects of your life…

The time difference and long distance either make you want to spend all your free time to chat with your partner or be stressed out about it even when you’re trying to chill with your friends or families.

You stress too much about trying to make this long distance relationship work that you end up paying hardly any attention to your social life, physical health and so on.

Can you relate to any of these reasons?

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Family, Love & Dating

6 Signs the Woman You’re Dating is a GOLD Digger

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photo credit: Gokhan Altintas Photography via photopin cc
Modified by author

Guys, before you get all excited and start reading this list, understand there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a woman looking for a man with decent financial stability. Practical thinking women often search for men who can at least afford to pay the bills and to provide for the family. Don’t assume she’s a gold digger just because she asked you about your job or salary. Read these and if she happens to be doing all of these things, all the time, then she might be a ….yeah that.

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NO 1: So damn curious about your bank account.

If she’s a gold digger, she will always be curious about how much money you have in your bank account. She will probably know your spending and savings more accurately than you do. She would always be curious to know about all the different ways you make or have chances of making lots of money.

NO 2: Playing nice and sweet to know more…

about your financial status. Watch how she acts when you talk about anything related to your money and properties. Does she seem to get overly excited? Does she play extra nice after finding out about your income or after you shower her with expensive gifts?

NO 3: Taking her out to anywhere is like taking a child.

She will never bring cash or credit cards whenever she comes out with you. The only difference is children won’t have or need money or credit cards. Of course, gentlemen always offer to pay for the restaurant bills, but decent women would offer to pay at least once in a while. When was the last time she offered to pay for anything? Does she always shower you with sugar coated sentences to buy her things when you two are out?

NO 4: She’s always got a sudden financial crisis…

And no matter how many friends or families she has, apparently, no one will give her a dime in any of her difficult times and the only person she can ask help from is, you, all the time.

She would always play emotional dramas to make you give her money or pay for her things. She would make it out like no one else is there to help her. You know what’s even worse? Some smart gold diggers will not ask for financial help directly, but drop all the possible hints to make you pull out your wallet.

NO 5: She would always want to look high class.

Gold diggers always want to look rich so they can attract rich men. Check how desperate she is to buy expensive brand clothes and jewelries all the time, even when she complains about having financial difficulties.

NO 6: LIES about her status.

She would tell you so many lies about how she knows this person, that person and about how she used to drive this car that car, all to hint you she’s loaded. That’s rarely the case though.

Want to test? Tell her you’ve just been fired and have got into a lot of debt. Tell her all your properties will be taken away from you and how you’re about to be broke. Maintain this lie for at least a month to see her real self. If she’s a gold digger, she would probably wave goodbye to you within the next few days of you saying these things to her. They’ve become smarter though, so you have to sound REALLY believable.

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Family

How to Win a Girls Heart: PART 7- Women belong in the kitchen? You better learn to make a sandwich sir!

This post applies to those men who seriously believe that the only priority for a woman in her life is to please her husband in bed, be a master chef in the kitchen and raise her children well. Of course these are things that become a part of a woman’s life but that’s not the only thing she is made for.

Oh hello, please come out of your caveman world because we are in 2014!

God created woman for man and man for woman so they can support and love each other, not so man can treat her like dust.

Expecting your future wife to know some basic cooking skills is normal but expecting that only she should be in charge of the kitchen department is insane.

Girls actually love guys who can cook or at least make a tea and a sandwich!

Of course we don’t really expect guys to cook like Gordon Ramsay [though we’d love it], but being able to make some sandwich or having the attitude to help her out in the kitchen when she is cooking, damn that’s a real man right there!

It’s one of those simple things you can do to show your respect for her as an individual and your effort to establish equality in your relationship.

The subject of the next part will be ‘Yolo and Swag is NOT going to pay the bills’.

Here are the previous six parts of this guide:

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3   Part 4   Part 5   Part 6

Sooo can you make a sandwich? 

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How to Win a Girls Heart: PART 6- Please let the girl breathe!

Adding the right amount of salt to your food will make it taste nice and the food will be ruined if you add too much salt to it. Likewise, a tiny winy bit of jealousy and possessiveness in a relationship is admirable. It shows you care and love her so much.

But what happens when you cross the limit of possessiveness and jealousy?

Your relationship will no longer be a healthy one that values and respects each other’s individuality. What she found cute in the beginning, she will eventually find it annoying and you can’t blame her for it.

Wanting to spend time with her is fine but wanting her to spend her time only with you is not.

Learn to respect your girl as an individual and give her the space she deserves as a human being. Buying a box of chocolates and a teddy bear on Valentine’s Day, any guy can do that. But how are you going to stand out?

Don’t annoy her to the point where she starts seeking peace from elsewhere.

Unless she is evidently flirting with other guy/s and/ or cheating on you behind your back, you should not get on her nerves about every single male that she knows in her life. I say this because some guys can actually be that possessive to the point where they get mad at their girl even when she is just casually talking to her friend who is a guy or a cousin or even a stranger.

What happened to her friends and families?

Let the girl breathe. Allow her to keep and maintain the priorities she had in her life before meeting you, unless one of her priorities was her ex of course. If she used to have day outs with her mates, let her do that even after she falls in love with you. If she enjoyed having family sleepovers on a regular basis, let her continue. If she used to enjoy swimming, don’t stop her from doing it just because you don’t want her to wear a swimming dress! Do you get where I’m coming?

Don’t make her feel like a caged bird.

CC Licensed via Flickr-Ernst Moeksis Modified by DreamyBlogger

CC Licensed via Flickr-Ernst Moeksis
Modified by DreamyBlogger

The point here is that all the happiness she had before meeting you, should only continue to increase after meeting and deciding to be with you. If you entered into her life with false promises and made her feel like a caged bird in the end, she is going to want to fly away soon.

Unless she takes drugs, is an alcoholic or has any other harmful lifestyle habits, you shouldn’t be interrupting in her freedom to be herself.

Here are the previous five parts of this series:

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3   Part 4   Part 5

The subject of the next part of this series will be ‘Women belong in the kitchen? You better learn to make a sandwich!’

So what do you think guys? Have you or will you allow your girl the freedom she deserves? I’d love to hear what you have to say. 

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