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How to Win a Girls Heart: PART 7- Women belong in the kitchen? You better learn to make a sandwich sir!

This post applies to those men who seriously believe that the only priority for a woman in her life is to please her husband in bed, be a master chef in the kitchen and raise her children well. Of course these are things that become a part of a woman’s life but that’s not the only thing she is made for.

Oh hello, please come out of your caveman world because we are in 2014!

God created woman for man and man for woman so they can support and love each other, not so man can treat her like dust.

Expecting your future wife to know some basic cooking skills is normal but expecting that only she should be in charge of the kitchen department is insane.

Girls actually love guys who can cook or at least make a tea and a sandwich!

Of course we don’t really expect guys to cook like Gordon Ramsay [though we’d love it], but being able to make some sandwich or having the attitude to help her out in the kitchen when she is cooking, damn that’s a real man right there!

It’s one of those simple things you can do to show your respect for her as an individual and your effort to establish equality in your relationship.

The subject of the next part will be ‘Yolo and Swag is NOT going to pay the bills’.

Here are the previous six parts of this guide:

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3   Part 4   Part 5   Part 6

Sooo can you make a sandwich? 

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How to Win a Girls Heart: PART 6- Please let the girl breathe!

Adding the right amount of salt to your food will make it taste nice and the food will be ruined if you add too much salt to it. Likewise, a tiny winy bit of jealousy and possessiveness in a relationship is admirable. It shows you care and love her so much.

But what happens when you cross the limit of possessiveness and jealousy?

Your relationship will no longer be a healthy one that values and respects each other’s individuality. What she found cute in the beginning, she will eventually find it annoying and you can’t blame her for it.

Wanting to spend time with her is fine but wanting her to spend her time only with you is not.

Learn to respect your girl as an individual and give her the space she deserves as a human being. Buying a box of chocolates and a teddy bear on Valentine’s Day, any guy can do that. But how are you going to stand out?

Don’t annoy her to the point where she starts seeking peace from elsewhere.

Unless she is evidently flirting with other guy/s and/ or cheating on you behind your back, you should not get on her nerves about every single male that she knows in her life. I say this because some guys can actually be that possessive to the point where they get mad at their girl even when she is just casually talking to her friend who is a guy or a cousin or even a stranger.

What happened to her friends and families?

Let the girl breathe. Allow her to keep and maintain the priorities she had in her life before meeting you, unless one of her priorities was her ex of course. If she used to have day outs with her mates, let her do that even after she falls in love with you. If she enjoyed having family sleepovers on a regular basis, let her continue. If she used to enjoy swimming, don’t stop her from doing it just because you don’t want her to wear a swimming dress! Do you get where I’m coming?

Don’t make her feel like a caged bird.

CC Licensed via Flickr-Ernst Moeksis Modified by DreamyBlogger

CC Licensed via Flickr-Ernst Moeksis
Modified by DreamyBlogger

The point here is that all the happiness she had before meeting you, should only continue to increase after meeting and deciding to be with you. If you entered into her life with false promises and made her feel like a caged bird in the end, she is going to want to fly away soon.

Unless she takes drugs, is an alcoholic or has any other harmful lifestyle habits, you shouldn’t be interrupting in her freedom to be herself.

Here are the previous five parts of this series:

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part 2   Part 3   Part 4   Part 5

The subject of the next part of this series will be ‘Women belong in the kitchen? You better learn to make a sandwich!’

So what do you think guys? Have you or will you allow your girl the freedom she deserves? I’d love to hear what you have to say. 

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How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 5- Become her best friend so you can be the best Boyfriend!

You’ve probably heard others say that girls are pretty gullible. That’s right, girls can be gullible but not so much when it comes to the A-Z part.  Huh? That means her close friends can know everything about her but there could always be that one thing that she is just not ready to reveal yet. It could be anything literally. It could be something that she regrets or something that she is experiencing at the moment.

Deep inside, girls always seek for that one person to talk about anything and everything with. They seek for this freedom where they don’t have to worry about the after consequences of letting this person know about whatever it is.

If you can become her real best friend before you become her boyfriend, trust me, you will be the best boyfriend she could ever have! This doesn’t mean you nag her to tell you everything or expect her to though, but it means that you show her love in a way she feels she can be completely open and honest with you about anything.

The subject of part 5 of this series will be ‘Let the girl breathe’.

Here are the first four parts if you haven’t read it already:

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part  2   Part 3   Part 4

By being her best friend and boyfriend at the same time, you could win her heart and keep it.

What matters? Winning and losing her heart after a short period of time or winning and keeping it as long as you live? 

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How to Win a Girls Heart: PART 4- She judges you by the way you judge other girls

Guys, if a girl truly falls for you, she wouldn’t want to keep any secrets from you, definitely not the ones that you should know about. She would usually make the effort herself to tell you all about her past relationship/s and whatever else that she feels you should know about.

Some guys think it’s gangsterish [made up word] to go around updating Facebook statuses swearing at and judging other girls for no reason. 9/10 of the times, they have never even seen that girl or talked to her at any point but will be so quick to spread gossips about her. If you think updating statuses or sharing negative posts about girls makes you a cool person, you will be surprised to know that you are wrong.

Do you know what this reveals about you to her? That you are too quick to judge other girls and that you expect girls to be super perfect. Nobody is perfect.

Believe me, if you constantly act in the way I’ve mentioned above, it is highly unlikely that the girl you’re after will fall in love with you. Even if she does let her hormones take over and go for you, there is a fine 50/50 chance that she will keep secrets from you. By secrets, we’re talking about serious things that you probably should know about.

Us girls, we firmly believe in this saying:

If you keep judging other girls and calling them names all the time, chances are your girl will not want to be open with you to avoid being judged by you.

All of what I’ve written above is only if your girl is not a gossiping type or the one who is not quick to judge other girls.

The subject of next part will be ‘Become her best friend so you can be the best Boyfriend too!’

Here are the previous 3 parts of of this series.

How to Win a Girls Heart: Part 1   Part 2    Part 3

Have you fallen in this trap? Let me and other readers know how you feel about it. 

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